Below, I provide more detail on each of the techniques, so you can put them into practice today.
Physiological sigh
What it is: A pattern of breathing of two inhales, followed by an extended exhale.
Why it works: This pattern of breathing offloads carbon dioxide, which allows our body to calm down and counter its stress response.
Additional resources: Huberman Lab overview
Bilateral stimulation
What it is: A practice of bilateral stimulation (e.g., rhythmically taping your thighs) that triggers the parasympathetic nervous system.
Why it works: This behavior reorients your attention away from the stressor and toward a calming sensation, which signals to your brain you’re safe and can begin countering its stress response.
Additional resources: Bilateral stimulation overview
Permission to pause
What it is: When you notice your mind racing along with other signs of a stress response (e.g., elevated heart rate), give yourself permission to step away from the stressor and calm down before you react.
Why it works: When you are in a stress response, you have less cognitive capacity to process the situation and make a conscious choice about how to respond. Pausing before you respond gives you time to counter the stress reaction, so you can more objectively process the situation and the choices available to you.
PEW-12
What it is: A 12-minute “free writing” exercise to quickly surface and process subconscious thoughts and emotions, so you can purge your stress-inducing thoughts and feelings.
Why it works: When you’re experiencing high stress, you have less cognitive capacity to identify, process, and move beyond stressors. This activity frees-up cognitive capacity by enabling you to surface and release negative thoughts and emotions.
Additional resources: PEW-12 overview
Wim Hof breathing
What it is: A pattern of controlled breathing that stimulates adrenaline and cortisol, thus simulating a stress reaction in your body.
Why it works: By simulating a stress reaction in a controlled environment and practicing remaining calm during that time, you train your body to remain calm when it experiences stress.
Additional resources: Wim Hof Method overview
Meditation
What it is: A practice of calming the mind, cultivating attention and awareness, and strengthening the mind-body connection.
Why it works: It immediately works to trigger the parasympathetic nervous system, which tells your body it’s safe to calm down and release stress. Over time, it can also help you stay more present in the moment, which increases your cognitive capacity to perceive, process, and respond to situations from a place of choice.
Additional resources: How to manage stress with meditation
Remove internal blocks to success
What it is: A five-step process to identify and change the beliefs, mindsets, and internal narratives that create stress.
Why it works: Top-down stress is the result of narratives you create about situations. When you change those narratives, you can reduce or eliminate stress.
Additional resources: A five-step process to transform inner blocks
Leadership Mindset Blueprint
What it is: An assessment that sheds light on the unique set of mindsets from which you approach life, both on a good day and under stress, and an action plan to shift your mindset.
Why it works: The mindset from which you approach a situation determines how you will perceive and react to that situation. When you shift your mindset, you also shift your thought and feeling patterns from ones that induce stress to ones that induce calm. Changing your mindset is one of the best ways to effortlessly reduce stress.
Additional resources: Master Your Mindset
Healthy relationships
What it is: Social connections or attachments to people, pets, and things that delight us.
Why it works: These connections, especially when they involve play and experiences of delight, trigger serotonin release. Serotonin mitigates the long-term aspects of stress.
Additional resources: Huberman Lab Podcast (jump to 1:06:30)